In the era of "word value", we must learn to communicate well.

Everyone has a free and independent mind, everyone has their own worldview, everyone has their own different cognitions and ideas about the same thing, communication allows us to understand each other's ideas better.

The famous American futurist Nesbitt once said: "Future competition is the competition of management, and the focus of competition lies in the effective communication between the members of each social organization and with external organizations." ”

So, no matter what stage you are in, what career you are engaged in, learn to better handle interpersonal relationships, then you have gone through 85% of the road to success, and good interpersonal relationships start from learning to communicate.

In life, we usually have different natures, family environments, and upbringing, which leads to different ways of thinking about things.

Think about it, if someone criticizes us or wants to change us because they don't have the same principles as us, will you also get bored and unwilling to associate with such people?

So if we want others to like us, the first thing we should do is to learn to respect each other's differences.

 There is a saying in "Spring and Autumn": Private hearing makes deafness, and private worries make the heart crazy.

If you listen to problems with selfishness, you will become deaf, and if you think about problems with selfishness, you will make your mind mad without rules.

 Effective listening is the key to building a harmonious interpersonal relationship.

There is a saying in "Nonviolent Communication": True listening is to let go of the thoughts and judgments you already have in your own mind and to experience others wholeheartedly.

Ordinary communicators only listen to what they think is important, while really good communicators listen wholeheartedly and do not miss a single detail.

Listening is not only about listening to the narrator's words with your ears, but also about feeling the verbal information and emotional transmission of the other person during the conversation.

It reflects your upbringing, shows your qualities, and allows you to accurately and quickly understand the true thoughts of the other person's heart.

Effective communication is to know how to listen to others, and give respect, when others express, do not arbitrarily deny others, so as to avoid unnecessary misunderstandings.

Everyone has emotions, but not everyone can manage them. Different emotions will lead to different communication results.

There is a good saying: a good mood will make the communication effect twice the result with half the effort, and a bad mood and the effect of communication will create trouble.

When communicating with people, 70 percent is emotion and 30 percent is content. Managing our emotions can help us relate to people more effectively.

Communication is an essential social skill for adults, and managing emotions is a compulsory course for adults.

The more educated a person is, the more comfortable he knows how to treat others. Only by learning to communicate can we shorten the distance between each other's hearts.

 Learning to communicate is not only emotional intelligence, but also nurturing and kindness in the bones.

When we are considerate of others from the heart, for the sake of others, sincere to others, and tolerant of others, others are willing to approach us.

Learning to respect others is to respect yourself; Learning to make others comfortable can make yourself comfortable, which is the true meaning of interpersonal communication.