Learn these tricks and improve your communication and speaking skills instantly!

No matter how smart, rich, or powerful you are, the moment a person is angry, the IQ is zero, and after a minute it returns to normal.

 Remember: don't be angry when making any decisions!

The key to human elegance is to control one's emotions, and hurting others with one's mouth is the most stupid behavior. Our unfreedom is usually due to bad emotions from within us.

Remember: a person who can control bad emotions is stronger than a person who can take a city.

If the water is deep, it will flow slowly, and if it is late, it will be expensive. It took us two years to learn to speak, but it took decades to learn to shut up.

 Remember: speaking is an ability; Not to say, it is a kind of wisdom.

 1. Urgently, speak slowly

When you encounter an urgent matter, if you can calm down and think about it, and then explain it clearly without hurry, it will leave a steady and impulsive impression on the listener, thereby increasing the trust of others.

 2. Little things, humorously

In particular, some kind reminders, told in a joke, will not make the listener feel stiff, and they will not only gladly accept your reminder, but also enhance the sense of intimacy with each other.

 3. If you are not sure, say it carefully

If you don't say anything about things that you are not sure about, others will think you are hypocritical; If you can say it in a precise way, it will make people feel that you are a trustworthy person.

 4. Don't talk nonsense about things that didn't happen

People hate people who make things out of nothing, and if you never speculate or talk nonsense, it will make people think that you are mature, cultivated, and a serious and responsible person.

 5. Don't talk nonsense about what you can't do

As the saying goes, "Don't do porcelain work without diamonds". Not easily promising what you can't do will make the listener feel that you are a person who "believes in your words and does what you do" and is willing to believe you.

 6. You can't say anything that hurts people

Do not easily hurt others with words, especially between people close to you, and do not say hurtful words. This will make them feel that you are a kind person and will help maintain and strengthen the relationship.

 7. Don't talk about sad things when you see people

When people are sad, they have the desire to talk, but if you talk to someone when you see them, it is easy to make the listener feel too much psychological pressure and become suspicious and alienated from you. At the same time, you will also give the impression that you are not thinking about others and want to pass on your pain to others.

 8. Someone else's business, say it carefully

People need a safe distance from each other, and not easily commenting and spreading other people's affairs will give people a sense of security in their interactions.

 9. Listen to what others have to say

Listen to the opinions of outsiders more about your own affairs, one can give people the impression of modesty; The second will make people think that you are a reasonable person.

 10. Respect the elder's affairs, listen more and talk less

Older people tend not to like young people to comment too much about their own affairs, and if young people talk too much, they will think that you are not a respectful and humble person.

 11. The affairs of husband and wife are discussed and discussed

Between husband and wife, the most feared thing is to blame each other when encountering things, and mutual consultation will have the effect of "empathy", which can enhance the relationship between husband and wife.

 12. The children's affairs are enlightened

Especially adolescent children, who are very rebellious, and using a gentle and firm attitude to enlighten them can not only make them have a good impression of you, but also be willing to be friends with you, and can also play a role in persuasion.