A woman's growth determines the pattern of her life

Growing up is a slow process, but it's definitely a word to look forward to.

Yang Lan once said: "A woman's greatest charm is growth, there are many things in life that are difficult to grasp, only growth can be grasped, there may be people who will hinder your success, but no one can stop your growth." ”

A woman, as long as she keeps growing, she must be able to rely on herself and have the life she wants.

Some people say that time is like a ruthless pig-killing knife for women, ruining not only your youthful appearance, but also the infinite possibilities in your heart.

 In fact, what really widens the gap between women is not beauty, but growth.

For a woman, what time can take away from you is never something that you think is precious.

And your inner improvement, the transformation of your thinking consciousness, and the ability to continue to think are important factors that open up the gap in life.

It can be said that a woman's life, starting from the moment you have the consciousness of self-growth, has reached a fork in the road.

At this time, there are two paths in front of every choice, one is to continue to be mediocre, and the other is to live oneself.

The different paths you choose determine what kind of posture you use to walk, and also determine whether you are more and more comfortable walking this path, or more and more painful.

Xiaomei once heard a friend complain: I really want to live my life, but I don't have time, I am worried about my husband, children and parents every day, how can I have time to think about myself?

Zhang Xiaoxian said: "What keeps a person is never humble, but living well and independently. ”

In reality, many women have the focus of their lives either revolving around men or children, and they have nothing to speak of.

If you can set aside some energy from your intimate relationship for yourself to grow, I believe that you will learn more and more about yourself, and after seeing your own shining points, you will also like yourself more and more.

When you see your own possibilities and live for yourself, you will gain a greater degree of satisfaction in life and an equal relationship.

Only by growing, your independence, autonomy and nobility can make people impressed and unforgettable.

Sandberg once wrote a message to women: "Don't hit the brakes too early, don't leave the track too early." ”

In modern society, the wealth, respect and power that women get depends more on your personal survival strategy and ability to survive.

Therefore, if a woman wants to live the life she likes, she must be inseparable from self-growth.

Coco Chanel once said, "The most courageous act is to insist on thinking of yourself." ”

Only by constantly becoming a better version of yourself will you be able to live a worthwhile life in the years. Growth is like a light, and only by getting close to it can we reap a bright future.

 Aesthetic master Jiang Xun said: "Beauty is to come back and be yourself." ”

When a woman knows how to accept herself, grows through herself, and has real self-confidence, she can have enough confidence in her heart.

 As Xi Murong said: "I am already in the pavilion, worry-free and fearless." ＂

For the rest of our lives, let's be a growing woman together, not to please others, but to choose to grow into a better version of ourselves.