There is a kind of woman who never gets old

 Haruki Murakami once said:

 "People don't grow old slowly, but in an instant."

When we find that we have grown a gray hair and an extra wrinkle on our face, we have to admit that the years are not forgiving.

But there is also a kind of woman who not only does not feel that they are getting old, but feels that they are getting more and more beautiful.

You can't even tell their age from their faces, this kind of woman seems to never grow old, and she has a special charm.

In the long river of time, what they have grown is experience, and what they are not old is their temperament and demeanor.

 A woman with a good attitude is not afraid of aging

 The famous English poet Byron said:

 "Although the pessimistic person lives and dies, the optimistic person lives forever."

A woman with a good attitude can always face life calmly and skillfully resolve the troubles she encounters.

 The sorrow is dissipated with the wind, and the smile is on the face.

Recently, Zhou Xun made a stunning appearance on the stage of "Reader", which attracted continuous applause from the audience.

Seeing her current state, it is hard to believe that the once glamorous and eccentric "Princess Taiping" in "Daming Palace Ci" is now 47 years old.

 Time enriches the journey of life, and also makes the beauty look aged.

When starring in Ruyi in "The Legend of Ruyi", some netizens complained that "Zhou Xun is old" and "there is no aura".

 It was also from this moment that Zhou Xun suddenly realized that he might be really old.

 Even for a long time, she was anxious.

I also thought about whether to take some measures to retain my youthful appearance, but age cannot be reversed after all.

 Since you can't change reality, then adjust your mentality.

 As long as the heart is not old, there is no fear of old age.

This time in "Reader", when the host asked the question of "age anxiety" that had made her painful and cry again, Zhou Xun said with a smile:

"It's a process from tangled to confronted, and there will be a period of time to slowly accept it, and then slowly 'yours', so be it."

 With that, he burst into laughter with the audience.

When she reads affectionately on stage, she is no longer a girl, she has more beauty precipitated by the years.

Although she can't go back to the "Princess Taiping" period, she can still challenge those characters that the audience has never seen before and explore the infinite possibilities of life.

 Cartoonist Tango says:

"The so-called childhood, adolescence, and adulthood are all concepts, and life is its own business.

 Living a good life is the highest attitude towards life. ”

Life is not a cha cha dance, we can't take two steps back, and one step forward, we can only follow time to move forward.

 A woman with a good mentality is never afraid of the passage of time.

 They live as beautiful as flowers, as calmly as water.

They enjoy every stage of life, occasionally dancing, sometimes smiling, and always maintaining an elegant posture.

 Even though life will come to an end, the soul will always exude a unique charm.

 We can't change our biological age, but we can change our mental age.

Beauty is an attitude, and no matter how old we are, we should maintain a young heart.

 One inch wide heart, three points of benefit.

 A woman who has a passion, full of energy

 There's a good saying:

"As long as you have something that you can pour into yourself, then you will never really grow old."

Life is not long, we must live according to our own hearts, so as not to live up to this life.

A woman who always has a pursuit of life and has a favorite thing can experience the joy of life at any age.

 I once read such a news on the Internet:

There is an aunt Guo Xiuqing who makes steamed buns, and she is loved by many people because of her peculiar brushed steamed buns.

Aunt Guo has been learning to make steamed buns with her mother since she was 16 years old, and it has been more than 30 years now.

Making steamed buns is a physical job, kneading dough on the board every day, and repeating an action all the time, which is not only tiring, but also slightly boring.

But she loves steamed buns, but she enjoyed the production process very much, and also participated in the recording of the third season of "A Bite of China" with delicious steamed buns.

 Since participating in the show, many people have come to her shop to eat steamed buns.

 But there are also some young people who don't like to eat traditional old noodle steamed buns.

For this reason, 56-year-old Aunt Guo, after thinking hard for a few days, decided to take her own R&D team to upgrade the steamed buns.

At the beginning, I had no experience, either the color ratio was wrong, or the taste did not meet the requirements.

 But she didn't give up because of this, but tried again and again, and enjoyed it.

Doing what you love is always a state of being full of energy and energy.

Finally, after more than five months, a steamed bun that can be drawn was finally developed.

 This kind of steamed bun tastes soft and sweet, with an endless aftertaste, and can also be drawn.

 It is quite popular with young people, and sales have gone up all of a sudden.

Seeing this achievement, Aunt Guo felt a full sense of accomplishment in her heart, and the joy in her heart was beyond words.

她说：

 "Making steamed buns is not only a technique, but also an emotion."

If you have sustenance, you won't feel that life is boring; Do what you love, and it's always the year to fight.

 Aunt Guo lived out the best state of a woman.

 has his own little life and little ideals, does not envy anyone, and does not depend on anyone.

 Sanmao said:

 "Sincerity and love are the qualities that I will never give up."

 Hobbies make us sparkle in our dusty life.

A woman who loves her heart can always live a wonderful and abundant life, bury herself in cultivation, and have no time to be anxious.

 A woman who keeps learning will never fall behind

 Some people say:

 "A woman who learns for life is endlessly charming."

 Life is like sailing against the current, if you don't advance, you will retreat.

A woman who maintains her ability to learn likes to read, think, and explore a broader life, so as to save up enough confidence for herself to survive.

 They keep up with the times and will never be eliminated.

Jane Eyre, the protagonist of the novel Jane Eyre, is a person who changes his fate through learning.

Jane Eyre's parents died when she was a child, and she lived in her aunt's house, where she was disliked, despised, and even insulted.

 Leaving my aunt's house and going to live in an orphanage is even more inadequate and unfed.

But she was not defeated by these difficulties, but was determined to change the current situation of her life through learning.

 It was a shortcut to a happy life for her.

Later, through her own efforts, she became an excellent graduate and got the opportunity to stay in school to teach.

And during her time in school, she also learned to play the piano and paint, improved herself in many ways, and also found a job as a tutor, and her life was guaranteed.

For Jane Eyre, this is a big leap in life, she is no longer a poor and helpless little girl at the bottom.

Even later, when she met Rochester, who was very rich, she did not give up her pursuit.

 She has always maintained an independent attitude, does not please others, and does not wronged herself.

The books I have read and the knowledge I have precipitated have all become independent abilities and confidence.

 In fact, Jane Eyre is not a strong woman, and she has some extraordinary abilities.

 She just maintained the ability to learn and update herself from time to time.

 Confucius Ziyun: "Gou is new, every day is new, and every day is new." ”

The most beautiful posture of a woman is to surpass herself and sing all the way forward on the road of continuous improvement.

 A woman who is brave enough to try something new can adapt to the changes of the times.

They always have new ideas, new skills, and a sense of freshness in their lives.

Those women who never forget to study and inject fresh blood into themselves also bring their own light when they walk in the crowd.

 They don't get older, they just get better.

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 The French writer Marguerite Duras famously said:

"You were beautiful when you were young, but I prefer your face now that you have gone through the vicissitudes of life than then."

People live a lifetime, live with that spirit, and true beauty is exuded from the inside out.

 If the heart is not old, people will not be old.

 Every age group has its own growth and harvest.

 The years have taken away the face, and the experience has matured the mind.

 What has precipitated is a calm and calm state of mind.

A woman who will not grow old has already lived into a poem, and every sentence is beautiful when she reads it slowly, and she feels the charm between the lines.

May you carve yourself in the years and meet the best version of yourself in the time.